Comments on: 140. Toltec Gender – with Darren Deojee https://embodimentunlimited.com/140-toltec-gender-with-darren-deojee/ Join the global embodiment community Thu, 28 Feb 2019 11:18:21 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 By: Darren https://embodimentunlimited.com/140-toltec-gender-with-darren-deojee/#comment-55 Thu, 28 Feb 2019 11:18:21 +0000 https://embodiedfacilitator.com/?p=13632#comment-55 Hey Silk! I have gay and straight clients and you unsuccessfully presumed my gender!

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sexes and Persuasions love Toltec gender that I work with, but this wasn’t a basic intro.

There’s plenty there for queer folk too, but that was not what this conversation was about.

This was between two men about issues men are facing.

It’s not really for or about you.

If you want to call it fragility and privilege, then I accuse you of attempting to silence and diminish the experience of others.

I get pissed hearing about queer and trans stuff all the time, but I don’t vomit-project my belief in the ‘absolute truth of my position’ there on their conversations in the way you are attempting here..

Very, very sloppy boundary work and abysmal empathy for other humans experience.

I could not trust any so-called ‘tantra’ taught by someone so unable to allow the experience of others space.

Your ranty spasm says a lot about your presumptions, and your pain…

Not all conversations are for everyone.

Not all gender conversations are for queer folk, just as not all lgbt coversations are for everyone.

Let your anger on this one guide you away safely….. Don’t project your hate of biology or of conversations that don’t include you all over spaces that frankly are obviously not for you.

You have queer spaces for queer experience and queer sexual conversation, must all biological determinists spaces and conversations be invaded by angry and presumptive queer folk?

I’d say thanks for commenting but I’m not grateful.. Just means I have to yet again defend my native right to conversation against fascists and bigots who seek to silence and control all gender conversations with their presumed righteousness…

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